{"id":311,"date":"2013-12-22T15:27:46","date_gmt":"2013-12-22T23:27:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/theforgivenessstory.com\/?p=311"},"modified":"2014-02-07T11:20:44","modified_gmt":"2014-02-07T19:20:44","slug":"the-conflict","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/theforgivenessstory.com\/?p=311","title":{"rendered":"The Conflict"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The <em>CONFLICT<\/em> is the centerpiece of your Forgiveness Story. It&#8217;s where the &#8216;Bad Guy&#8217; does the &#8216;bad thing&#8217;. It is the\u00a0<i>WHAT?, WHEN? <\/i>and<i> WHERE <\/i>of your story and is the catalyst for the resentment your Protagonist holds.<\/p>\n<p>This is your forgiveness &#8216;issue&#8217;, so to speak. Strangely enough it is not where the actual pain is and has nothing to do with what needs to be healed, but it is what got it started.<\/p>\n<p>There will be no sugar-coating the <em>CONFLICT<\/em>. 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